Word of the week- Love

The virtue this week is LOVE; it is the most powerful force of life. Smiley Blanton wrote, “to love and to be loved is the bedrock of our existence.” Love bonds all other virtues that make up the content of good character. There is no better evidence in reaping what you sow as the more love you give, the more you will receive. The majority of people do not show love because they are afraid and regard love as a weakness. Love responds to love; allow yourself to be at risk. Show and display love; you WIN.

The greatest treatise ever written on love states, “Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly, it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth, bears ……believes…. hopes…. endures all things” (1 Cor. 13. 4 – 7).

Valentine’s Day is February 14.  A day of hearts and flowers, chocolates and Sweetheart banquets. Do you tell and show your spouse you love them by writing a note, sending a card, candlelight dinner.  Remember when you said, “I Do”. This is a wonderful time to add, I DO LOVE YOU.

Do not forget your children.  Tell them, “I LOVE YOU”.  If you are single, call a close friend and tell them with emotion and feelings, “I Love You”

Word of the Week: Self Control

Week beginning January 31, 2022; each week we discuss a principle or value of the Qualities of Success.We suggest you use the Word of The Week in your thoughts, deeds and actions. You might currently possess the quality and desire to develop it to a higher level.  You could replace a bad habit with a good habit.Write an action step and use it daily to develop the Quality in your life.

The principle this week is SELF CONTROL; the ability to remain calm and not show your true emotions even though you are feeling angry or excited. Self- control begins with your thoughts which become your words. Your deeds come from your words. Our self-control is displayed through communication, the exchange of information, verbal and non-verbal.Remaining civil and directing your energy in a positive manner even if you are not feeling motivated to do so. You can regulate emotions by acting in an appropriate way responding rather than reacting in a harsh critique.  Self-control is calm under pressure.

Word of Week

Week beginning January 31, 2022; each week we discuss a principle or value of the Qualities of Success. We suggest you use the Word of The Week in your thoughts, deeds and actions.  You might currently possess the quality and desire to develop it to a higher level.  You could replace a bad habit with a good habit. Write an action step and use it daily to develop the Quality in your life.

The principle this week is SELF CONTROL; the ability to remain calm and not show your true emotions even though you are feeling angry or excited.  Self- control begins with your thoughts which become your words. Your deeds come from your words. Our self-control is displayed through communication, the exchange of information, verbal and non-verbal. Remaining civil and directing your energy in a positive manner even if you are not feeling motivated to do so.  You can regulate emotions by acting in an appropriate way responding rather than reacting in a harsh critique.   Self-control is calm under pressure.

May 30, 2021 Blog

At 3:00 pm local time on Memorial Day, May 31, 2021, a national moment of remembrance will take place. Memorial Day is an American federal holiday since 1971 observed annually on the last Monday in May.  It is intended to honor and mourn those who died while serving in the armed services.  It is very different from Veterans Day which is observed November 11 each year to recognize all those who have served living and dead.  On Memorial Day, do not wish anyone, “Happy Memorial Day” which is not founded in joy with the promise of happiness at Christmas but a day of tradition to recognize and honor those who paid the ultimate price while on duty in the armed services.

Memorial Day began in Waterloo, New York as Decoration Day, an event to honor Union soldiers who died during the Civil War. The Civil War ended in 1865 and by the late 1860s towns and cities had begun holding tributes to those fallen soldiers decorating their grave with flags, flowers and reciting prayers.  Today, we honor our fallen by visiting cemeteries and memorials, attending parades and family gatherings and the wearing of the red poppy. A tradition that began with a World War 1 poem in remembrance of those fallen in war.

The military is built on tradition, customs and manners.  These are the keys to lasting relationships in the armed service.  Customs are regular expected actions to maintain orders and enforce military discipline while traditions are long established beliefs that have been passed on from generation to generation. They both give a sense of continuity upholding morale and instilling pride.

May 23, 2021 Blog

To Graduates of High Schools and Universities, Class of 2021

Thoughts upon “graduation”

The time has come for the cap and gown routine and the last group gathering with your class. I congratulate you.  You got it done.  You saw it through to the end including covid 19 coronavirus. The Graduation Ceremony is near; we are preparing to say “see you later”.  There are no goodbyes. The academic culture has always been family.  No goodbyes, just see you later.

At times the course seemed lengthy and you wondered “will this ever end”?  Sometimes it was dull, routine and even tedious. Other times it was difficult and challenging. Soon you will be far removed from High School and University disciplines of academics, emotional and mental stress, and organization of daily agendas dealing with working part time, social events, and going to college. Or a career.

Before the changing of the venue and before you run off to summer vacation, interviewing for new jobs, final preparation for entering the full-time work force or heading off to college, I am sharing some thoughts to help you continue in the things you have learned.  There are four simple commandments applicable to graduates.

1.  CONTINUE YOUR LEARNING.  It is one thing to complete a course of study and earn a certificate of accomplishment, a diploma or a degree; it is another thing to become a student for the rest of your life, to stay curious, to read widely, to be adventurous and creative and continue on the never ending pursuit of truth.  There is excitement about being around people who are still learning.  They are interesting and resourceful.  Life learners are challenged by the mysteries of life.  They are independent thinkers and are unwilling to be influenced by the majority opinion. This is your beginning into a quest for knowledge never to be satisfied.

2.  REMEMBER YOUR LEADERS.  Stay near and thank the teachers who impacted your life and contributed to your personal and professional growth.  There is something good and helpful about keeping in touch with your mentors, calling to mind the things they modeled, thinking of the benefits of having been the recipient of their wisdom, their reproofs, and their guidance.  The inspiration of a great teacher will go with you forever.

3.  RESPECT YOUR LIFE LEGACY.  You are the product of your past. Your parents and grandparents have shaped you and provided roots for you that attributed to you the reputation and character for a meaningful life with purpose.

4.  ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR CREATOR.  Keep your inner being and energy warm for God. Be leery of those future decisions that come with rigid conditions. Stay away from distractions that distort the Truth.  Stay so close to the flame of His Spirit you can feel His presence.

The admonition for you as a current graduate is do not stop your learning, do not forget your leaders, do not disregard your legacy and never ignore your Lord.

Congratulations!!

Kenneth Robert O’Neal

Ziglar Legacy Certified Coach and Trainer